Your "Why?" + Our "Why?"
You want to be married, find that special someone, to feel loved, connected and not alone. You are made for relationship!
We have been lonely, isolated and hurt too.
We have learned, healed and found TRUE LOVE.
We want to pass that on.
Why Finding
Adam Finding Eve?
We’re driven to guide young adults toward lasting, fulfilling marriages. Having endured the pain of difficult marriages and divorces in our 20s and 30s, we found healing through faith in Jesus Christ. This journey brought us together in ministry, where our love and friendship grew. For eight years, we’ve helped hundreds navigate dating and discern marriage as a vocation. Our passion is to reach more people, creating vibrant online community along with local events where singles can connect in person, find true love, and embrace their call to family and holiness.
Our Purpose:
Finding Adam Finding Eve exists to guide unmarried individuals toward true and lasting love by navigating the challenges of single life with faith in Jesus Christ.
WHO WE ARE
Be Known. Be Chosen. Be Given
We are Mike and Katie Palitto, a Catholic couple married for seven years, based in Kansas City, Missouri. After overcoming previous divorces and annulments, we remarried sacramentally and now lead a blended family of five children, ages 16 to 27. Our mission stems from the wisdom of St. John Paul 2, particulary regarding his philosophy on the restoration of the family and the mystery of the human person. Together, we founded this ministry eight years ago in our basement, drawing from over 17 years of young adult ministry experience. As promised members of the Apostles of the Interior Life, we live out our charism to enrich others’ interior lives. Katie, a certified Life Coach with a Master’s in Psychology from Divine Mercy University, manages our ministry and brings a decade of spiritual mentorship rooted in Ignatian spirituality. Mike, a cybersecurity architect with a Business Administration degree from Rockhurst College, supports our family and is a trained Spiritual Mentor. Guided by consecrated Spiritual Directors, we’re passionate about helping singles find lasting love and holiness.
YOUR BEST YEAR EVER
In just one year, new members of Finding Adam Finding Eve can transform their dating journey into a confident, faith-filled adventure. You’ll forge deep friendships, possibly meet a like-minded Christian to date, and grow spiritually through our True Love Dinners, events and workshops like “Boundaries in Dating” and “Gift of Self.” From small group discussions to live meetups and prayer groups, you’ll find a supportive community where you’re seen, heard, and equipped for a lasting, God-centered relationship—never feeling alone again.
WHAT YOU WILL GAIN
WHY HELP OTHERS?
As an active participant in Finding Adam Finding Eve, you’ll uncover your identity and purpose through the True Love Series, gain practical tools to discern and prepare for a faith-filled marriage, and build deep, like-minded friendships—all while growing closer to Jesus. By helping others in our community find true love, you live out sacrificial love, reflect God’s design for relationships, and strengthen your own journey. Together, we transform singlehood into a powerful path to holiness and lasting love.
What People Say...
Michael T., 34
"I was tired of going on first dates that went nowhere and wondering, ‘Where are all the good people to date?’ Finding Adam Finding Eve changed everything. Joining the FAFE Community and connecting with like-minded Christian singles felt like coming home. The ‘Dating Topic Must See’ videos gave me practical tips to approach dating with faith and purpose. Now, I’m in a serious relationship with someone who shares my values—and I’m so grateful for this platform!"
EMILY & JAMES, 29 & 32
"We met on Finding Adam Finding Eve and weren’t sure if we were called to marry. The Discern Phase was a game-changer. Taking the Relationship Readiness Assessment together and working through the Relationship Alignment Report helped us address our differences—like our communication struggles—and see God’s hand in our relationship. Now, we’re engaged, and we know we’re building a marriage rooted in faith. This roadmap guided us every step of the way!"
SARAH M., 27
"I joined Finding Adam Finding Eve feeling unsure if I was ready to date again after a tough breakup. The ‘4 Temperaments in Dating’ quiz and AdamEve Matrix really opened my eyes to my strengths and insecurities—like my struggle to open up on dates. The ‘True Love Formation Series’ helped me build confidence in my faith and understand what a godly marriage looks like. Now, I’m not just ready to find love—I’m excited to step into God’s plan for my future!"
We Believe...
We believe God is the author of marriage.
We believe the four marks of marriage are to be free, faithful, total, and fruitful.
We believe marriage was instituted in the Garden of Eden.
We believe discerning marriage with God and the Holy Spirit through an active prayer and sacramental life is critical.
We believe marriage is a sacrament, mirroring the love between God and His children, and is a conduit of grace.
We believe marriage is between a man and a woman.
We believe friendship is the basis for a successful and fulfilling marriage.
We believe God created man and woman to be complementary to one another.
We believe marriage is designed to make us holier, and thus happier.
We believe in total self-gift as the essence of married life.
We believe sacrificing oneself for one's spouse and family is the ultimate call and fulfillment of a vocation to marriage.
We believe children are always a blessing and the natural fruit of marital love.
We believe at the end of our lives we will be judged on how well we loved.
We believe the one flesh union, sacredly ordained by God to be expressed in sexual intimacy between spouses, is a gift that involves physical, emotional, and spiritual communion.
We believe marriage is indissoluble, yet also believe in the mercy of annulment by the Church.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does Finding Adam Finding Eve community cost money to join?
No! It is FREE to join the commnunity with a member site login. You can come to the monthly TrueLove events for free and even create a dating profile and become part of our matchmaking program for free.
What makes your community different than traditional dating apps?
First, We have built our community as an alternative to dating apps or speed dating services on the foundation of in-person REAL and face to face social interaction. Secondly, we are committed to a personalized approach that involves getting to know you and prayefully matching you with others we know and care about. No swiping, no objectification. Lastly, we want to accompany you the whole way. Our community wants to help you from finding a date to keeping a date to making that final discern of marriage.
Why do so many people struggle with dating in today's culture?
We hear the struggles from our community and the people we mentor. From not knowing where to meet people, rejection or ghosting on the apps, unrealistic expectations, and porn to the lack of social skills and impact of technology - We have great Master Classes on how to be successful.
Do you offer the ability to meet people in my area?
We do have local events in the KC area. When you join the community, you will have access to Local Groups to meet others in person near you. If you love to gather people - See our Ambassador Program for more details about how to help with this.
What if I am not Catholic and practice in another Christian denomination?
We all love the Lord Jesus and we all are a part of the family of believers. Our teachings and beliefs are grounded in Bible and teachings of the church for thousands of years. Lean in and learn no matter your affiliation, what can you lose?
How do I start a local Finding Adam Finding Eve presence where I live?
See our Ambassador Progam to find out more. Start one in your area and be a part of something special. You might just find many other meaningful relationships along the way.
Can I cancel my membership at any time?
Send us word in writing if you ever want to stop receiving our community correspondence.
What is the general cost of your membership?
At this time, there is no cost for membership.
If I don't want to join the community, do you offer any content on other platforms?
In the future, we will offer downloadable content and a private subscription model for access to our Master Class relationship learning content.
What are the age ranges in the community?
Generally, age 21 to 39 is our sweet spot. We realize that is a large age range but you will have plenty of people to meet near your age. And if your 40ish - contact us.
What if I just want to get access to the Relationship Readiness Assessment , Alignment Report, Deep Dives and Dating Coaching options?
These are offered as A la Carte items for pucrhase on our website to all community members.