Finding Adam Finding Eve is a young adult dating iniative that seeks to guide singles toward lifelong, sacramental marriages that glorify God’s Kingdom. We do this through our FAFE community, formation oppurtunites for both singles and couples, coaching and our FINDING Dating Service. Whether you’re single or in a relationship striving to grow stronger, we offer a fresh path forward. Unlike ordinary dating apps, we unite like-minded Christians, rooted in biblical faith, church teaching and intentional companionship. FINDING Dating Service is founded and guided by the principles of Personal, Real and Intentional dating. Built upon Christian values, our counter-cultural approach counters a world of fleeting connections by focusing on authentic, self-giving love and discernment. Built on three pillars—Prepare, Find, and Discern—we empower you with self-awareness, connect you with compatible matches, and support your discernment of God’s plan for your vocation. Here, it’s not just about finding someone to date—it’s about building a rock-solid foundation for a lifelong, fulfilling marriage though the pillars of Prepare, Find and Discern. Join us to connect, get to know yourself better, deepen your faith, and discover relationships that honor God and stand the test of time.​

Finding Adam Finding Eve (FAFE) is a commnunity of people who desire healthy, holy, happy relationship according to God's design for sex love and marraige. We have opportunities for you whether you are single and looking to date or already in a dating relationship looking to discern whats next. Or even if you are not sure you are ready to date yet. FAFE COMMNUNITY is for anyone seeking to know others who desire God's Plan for Love FINDING Dating Service is for those wanting to be matched for a date. GIFT Program is for those dating couples discerning what is next. SPARROW Coaching is for anyone wanting help with skills to improve social skills, relationships and dating success.

We have been mentoring and forming young adults for over 10 years, so we hear everything that is wrong with dating. I can't get a 2nd date I can't meet anyone nice. Men don't pursue. Women reject. I'm never attracted to anyone My parents divorced...so I don't know how to have healthy relationship Our Finding Adam Finding Eve Community is a place to find yourself and others, prepare for the gift that you will give and be given and discern who its meant for. We believe that human formation, good interpersonal skills, community and networking is missing from the dating culture and we seek to bring it back. We want to teach young adults to discern for themselves who is a good match and how to be a good match. We want to accompany them along every step. At FINDING Dating Service, you won't see other people's profiles. There's no swiping or liking. You get chosen by matchmakers who know you and care for your good, you choose after an in-person date and guided discernment. It is not an App because we want to change the dating culture from online to in person. From swiping to really seeing. We want to help match young adults by getting to know them and prayerfully discerning to introduce them And you're never alone.

Finding Adam Finding Eve is designed for singles who want to date with the goal of a sacramental marriage, according to the biblical roots and church teaching. It's for those who have tried the dating apps and are tired of feeling discouraged and hopeless in an over objectified dating culture, where faith seems to be the least important thing. Whether you are new to dating or been at it for some time, Finding Adam Finding Eve is for you. Finding Adam Finding Eve is not for those who just want to have fun or try things out. Dating involves precious human hearts and is not a recreational sport . You are smart, interesting, attractive and you are ready to be intentional about preparing yourself, committed to showing up in person and and dedicated to a faithfilled discernment- and you are ready to find not just a date...but The Forever Love that mirrors the Love of God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

We are launching our FINDING Dating Service this summer. Be sure to Join the community so you can be notified and stay connected.

You can get early access, be among the first users, help us build a better platform and give feedback that really matters just by joining the community now.

YES!!!! Finding Adam Finding Eve is a free community with groups and free resources. Once you are a member, we offer optional dating service and coaching for those wanting or needing more.

Join the Commnunity now and then you will be notified when we launch the dating service and calendar of events. From there, you can subscribe to your preferred dating tier and create a dating profile.

We are Mike and Katie Palitto, a Catholic couple married for seven years, based in Kansas City, Missouri. After overcoming previous divorces and annulments, we remarried sacramentally and now lead a blended family of five children, ages 16 to 27. Our mission stems from the wisdom of St. John Paul 2, particulary regarding his philosophy on the restoration of the family and the mystery of the human person. Together, we founded this ministry eight years ago in our basement, drawing from over 17 years of young adult ministry experience. As promised members of the Apostles of the Interior Life, we live out our charism to enrich others’ interior lives. Katie, a certified Life Coach with a Master’s in Psychology from Divine Mercy University, manages our ministry and brings a decade of spiritual mentorship rooted in Ignatian spirituality. Mike, a cybersecurity architect with a Business Administration degree from Rockhurst College, supports our family and is a trained Spiritual Mentor. Guided by consecrated Spiritual Directors, we’re passionate about helping singles find lasting love and holiness.

We love meeting new people who are passionate about their faith and relationships and helping others find meaningful connection. We are always looking for others who can improve upon what we are doing woith their God given talents. We look forward to meeting you and seeing how the Spirit is moving. Check out our Ambassador Program to contact us.